**Note: Long post ! No intention to hurt anyone’s feeling ! No Bashing plz !
My phone was flooding with women’s day msgs when I woke up today. So I did the same and forwarded few msgs to friends & groups along with my Thanks. I came downstairs, my husband hugged me and served hot breakfast to make me feel special today. After morning errands I sat at my favorite spot on the couch with my second round of tea. I was overwhelmed with morning gesture from hubby but slowly my smile got replaced with creases on my forehead. Each sip took me into deep & deep thoughts. The racing thoughts turned into rages. I am celebrating today because I am lucky and surrounded by good men in my life. But does every woman feel the same? Unfortunately the answer is No. Though we are in 21st century but women are still seeking their existence. We earned name tags of mothers, daughters, sisters, wives but what we never earned is Equality. We have been always underestimated, we have been molested, we have been into domestic violence, we have been raped and we have been faltered. For whom this worldwide celebration today? Why the hell we are celebrating this women’s day? Do We women still need to remind the world that we do exist here? Do we still urge them to recognize us? Why do we need to realize them that we too important for this society? There is no Men’s day... so why women’s day? Are we still not equal? We don’t celebrate Men’s day coz they are dominant and we are still weak and look up to their support and encouragement? Are we not enough to fight our own battles? Let me tell you here, we don’t need your appreciation or celebration. If you really wanna give something then give us that equality which is our right, give us that respect what we earned. Give us that honor what we deserve. Give us that smile back which is fading away. Fill that gender gap which is created since ages. Why we always talk about empowerment and autonomy of a woman? Why we never talk about men’s insecurity and promiscuity? Hello, we don’t need your certificates to proof ourselves. We are strong enough to fight back, we are brave enough to compete and establish ourselves, we know how to get up from falls and walk again with the same grace, we don’t need your shoulders. We are women not parasites. Stop celebrating our womanhood and focus on your so called manhood. Dear Men, you might be strong enough to put us on bed and calm your inches forcefully but don’t forget we are strong enough to kick your balls when it will come to our self respects. We are silent till we shaken up. We are calm till we broken up. Cmon ladies, raise your voice if you are suffering in this men dominant society. Your voice is not only made for lullabies, roar back if they stomping on your existence. Only you can help yourself. Life is full of pulls and pushes but you don’t loose your confidence because they don’t know we can keep many of them in our womb itself 😉
Be bold and bowled over.
Thought of the day “Fight don’t Fright”
Happy Wo-Men’s Day🙏🏼